The Illusion of Happiness
The world unfolds like a beautiful fair—crowded, restless, and vibrant. We are all busy chasing a version of happiness defined by the tangible: houses, comfort, cars, and status. We rush forward with a sense of urgency, believing that somewhere ahead, peace is a prize waiting to be owned.
But peace is never something we can buy. Though it asks for no money, we often feel helpless in our search for it. The mind grows tired—not from emptiness, but from the weight of expectation. We collect material things, believing they will calm our souls, yet the silence never arrives. Rarely do we pause to ask ourselves what our heart truly wants, or what our soul has been quietly longing for.
Disconnected While Connected
One afternoon, over a quiet cup of coffee, I sat alone—not to escape the world, but to finally meet myself. I tried to pray, not through spoken words, but through the language of stillness, hoping to touch that silent space within. Thoughts surfaced gently, and for a moment, I allowed them to stay without judgment.
Then, my phone rang, pulling me back to the noise. It is a strange irony: technology connects us to the world, yet often disconnects us from our own hearts. There is so much external noise that we forget how to listen to our own minds. Moments of stillness have become rare, and in losing them, we lose the chance to hear what our soul is trying to tell us.
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When Life Pauses Like Fog
There are moments when life feels like a sudden fog. The path ahead blurs, familiar shapes disappear, and everything seems to freeze. In these moments, life feels paused, and we become unsure of where to move next.
Yet, when mist settles on a rose, it does not take away its beauty—it deepens it. The petals hold the fog gently, quietly glowing from within the haze. Perhaps life is the same. When clarity fades, it does not always mean a loss of direction. Sometimes, it is an invitation to see beauty in a softer, slower way.
As Rainer Maria Rilke once wrote:
“Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart, and try to love the questions themselves.”
Maybe this pause, this fog, is not here to stop us—but to teach us patience with the person we are becoming.




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ReplyDeletewrite to said, we are running behind to non living things to find happiness, but we forget that happiness is part of our internal soul not external world.
ReplyDeleteWonderful as ever.. a very peaceful article. This is something I believe everyone experience when they sit alone even for 2 minutes. Congratulations and happy new year to all.
ReplyDeleteAs u usual great 👍👍👍 lovevto read
ReplyDeleteਤੁਹਾਡਾ ਬਲੌਗ “Adhure Jazbaat” ਬਹੁਤ ਹੀ ਦਿਲ ਨੂੰ ਛੂਹਣ ਵਾਲਾ ਤੇ ਸੁੰਦਰ ਲਿਖਿਆ ਹੋਇਆ ਹੈ। ਇਸ ਵਿੱਚ ਜਿਹੜੀਆਂ ਭਾਵਨਾਵਾਂ ਦਰਸਾਈਆਂ ਗਈਆਂ ਹਨ, ਉਹ ਬਿਲਕੁਲ ਸੱਚੀਆਂ ਤੇ ਦਿਲ ਨੂੰ ਛੂਹਣ ਵਾਲੀਆਂ ਲੱਗਦੀਆਂ ਹਨ। ਤੁਸੀਂ ਆਪਣੇ ਸ਼ਬਦਾਂ ਰਾਹੀਂ ਜਜ਼ਬਾਤ ਬਿਆਨ ਕਰਨ ਦੀ ਕਾਬਲਿਯਤ ਰੱਖਦੇ ਹੋ—ਬਹੁਤ ਹੀ ਸ਼ਾਨਦਾਰ। ਅੱਗੇ ਵੀ ਤੁਹਾਡੀ ਹੋਰ ਲਿਖਤ ਪੜ੍ਹਨ ਦੀ ਉਡੀਕ ਰਹੇਗੀ।
ReplyDeleteOur mind never rest, thoughts of all kinds come and goes as you move your eyes around, you can pen down some of your thoughts but you need efforts to do that. It help you to pass your days and some seniors do not have that privilege due to dementia, forgetting your relatives friends is bit painful, it make you lonely, sometimes I wonder having a long life is boon or curse, some seniors cannot pass their day without outside help and feel so helpless, I hope in future medical science will be advanced enough to solve this, but till then they are the subject of pity.
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